This is what I’d call a Polymath’s Curriculum: an education designed not just to transfer knowledge, but to develop people who can think across disciplines, recognize patterns, fill their own knowledge gaps, and adapt.

1. Learning how to learn.
   Understanding how you personally acquire and retain knowledge best. Learning different methods of knowledge acquisition, memory and retrieval, and how to adapt your approach depending on what you are trying to learn.

2. Logic and reasoning.
   How to construct and evaluate an argument, recognize faulty reasoning and cognitive biases, distinguish correlation from causation, evaluate evidence, and change your mind when the evidence warrants it.

3. Synthesis.
   Learning to combine ideas, evidence, and perspectives from multiple disciplines. Not simply accumulating knowledge, but connecting it, reorganizing it, and using knowledge from one area to illuminate another.

4. Pattern recognition and predictive thinking.

   Learning to identify recurring patterns across history, human behaviour, economics, politics, science, nature, and culture. History should not simply be about memorizing dates and events. What conditions produced an event? What preceded it? Where have we seen something similar before? What happened next? Patterns can help us form better hypotheses about possible futures while still understanding the limitations of prediction.

5. Gap recognition and backfilling knowledge.
   Learning to recognize what you don’t know, determine which missing information actually matters, and efficiently acquire it. You don’t always need to become an expert in an entire field. Sometimes you need to identify the critical gap, learn that piece well, and integrate it with what you already know.

6. Intellectual versatility.
   Learning how to move between disciplines, perspectives, tools, and ways of thinking. Different problems require different mental models. Becoming comfortable entering unfamiliar territory rather than immediately thinking, “That isn’t my subject.”

7. Scientific literacy.
   Not simply memorizing scientific conclusions, but learning how to dissect research. How was the study conducted? How large and representative was the sample? What were the controls? What are the limitations? Who funded it? Has it been replicated? Who evaluated it? What does peer review actually establish, and what doesn’t it establish? Science should be understood as a method of inquiry rather than a collection of unquestionable conclusions.

8. Philosophy and epistemology.
   How do we know what we think we know? What constitutes evidence? What is truth? What assumptions are underneath our conclusions? How certain should we actually be about what we believe?

9. Systems thinking.
   Understanding relationships, feedback loops, incentives, second and third order effects, unintended consequences, and how changing one part of a system can affect seemingly unrelated parts.

10. Inner awareness.
    Understanding your own patterns, motivations, strengths, weaknesses, values, biases, triggers, and ways of thinking. Metacognition should be something kids learn early.

11. Outer awareness.
    Learning to observe people, environments, systems, social dynamics, incentives, context, and subtle changes. Actually noticing what is happening rather than only seeing what you expect to see.

12. Emotional intelligence and emotional regulation.
    nderstanding emotions in yourself and others, empathy, communication, conflict, boundaries and relationships, but also learning how to tolerate discomfort, manage stress, and respond rather than simply react.

13. Multidisciplinary project learning.
    Give students real problems that require them to draw from mathematics, science, history, writing, technology, design, economics, psychology, art, and communication. The real world doesn’t divide problems into 50 minute subject blocks.

14. Information literacy.
    How to research, evaluate sources, distinguish expertise from authority, recognize manipulation and propaganda, compare competing claims, and navigate a world where information is abundant but reliable knowledge is much harder to identify.

15. Communication.
    Writing clearly, speaking publicly, listening well, asking good questions, interviewing people, explaining complex ideas simply, and learning how to disagree productively.

16. Creativity and curiosity.
    Idea generation, experimentation, tinkering, questioning assumptions and pursuing curiosity across disciplines. Curiosity outside the curriculum shouldn’t be treated as a distraction from learning. It often is learning.

17. Financial and economic literacy.|
    Taxes, debt, compound interest, investing, insurance, contracts, entrepreneurship, opportunity cost, risk, and understanding how economic incentives influence behaviour.

18. Body literacy and health.
    Posture, movement, sleep, nutrition, eating pace and chewing, fasting, reading food labels, basic physiology, and understanding how seemingly insignificant daily habits compound over decades.

Ultimately, I think education should spend much less time asking, “What information can you remember?” and much more time developing people who know how to learn, think, question, observe, connect, synthesize, create, communicate and adapt.

You don’t have to know everything. You need to know how to recognize what’s missing, how to learn it, and how to connect it to what you already know.

Those skills compound for life.

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What did I miss?

What else should schools be teaching that they aren’t?

And for years, I didn’t.

Not because of the work. I’ve filed 7,500 tax returns, co-founded five businesses, run a commercial crop farm, and finished a Master’s degree from a wheelchair. I don’t avoid hard things.

I avoided this one.

Because I knew what it would cost me.

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Let me back up.

I didn’t grow up knowing my half-sister Jamie. We shared a father — an abusive alcoholic — but different mothers, different cities, different versions of the same wreckage. She was twelve years younger than me. A face in a picture frame at my grandparents’ house.

Then our father died.

Family reached out: “Can you find your sister?”

So I searched. Found her working the front desk at a hotel called the Days Inn.

I knew that hotel. I’d worked the front desk at that same building when I was young. Same owners. It used to be called the Pepper Tree Inn.

They hired sisters and didn’t even know it.

Jamie didn’t know she had a sister. So I told her. And then — because life doesn’t let you pace these moments — I had to tell her our father was dead. All in one breath. I’m your sister. And by the way, he’s gone.

We started building a relationship. She lived thirty minutes from me. She was funny and sharp and damaged in ways I recognized because I was damaged in the same ways.

But our coping looked different.

Jamie’s addictions were chemical. Mine were overachieving, perfectionism, learning — anything that let me push out the pain instead of numbing it.

Same wounds. Different bandages.

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One afternoon, my husband and I were at the lawyer’s office redoing our will. I had just added Jamie — just that moment, signed her name in.

We left the lawyer’s office. I wasn’t even in the car yet.

The call came.

Jamie was found in a hotel room that morning. Cardiac arrest. The heart condition from childhood, worn down by years of drugs.

I had just written her into my future. And she was already gone.

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At the funeral — a small memorial at her aunt’s home — an uncle came over to me. He said the family had been staring at me the whole gathering.

“We just can’t get over how alike you are. Your mannerisms. The way you express certain words. Your facial features.”

Same DNA. Same face. Same gestures.

One of us was in the urn. One of us was writing this.

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After Jamie died, I sat with a question I didn’t want to ask.

Why did I get to build the life I have?

Same father. Same damage. Same DNA — close enough that Jamie’s family couldn’t stop staring at my face.

People love to call that “choice.” They love to say the one who made it out was stronger, smarter, more disciplined.

I don’t believe that.

Jamie had grit. At fourteen, she figured out how to petition the court to emancipate herself from her abusive mother. When she went to jail, she took free college courses — studying to improve her prospects while most people around her did nothing.

The difference wasn’t willpower. It was a toolkit.

Somewhere along the way, I stumbled into a set of perspective shifts — ways of seeing that helped me navigate the impossible situations that kept showing up. Nobody handed me those tools. I built them from scratch, out of pain, out of despair, out of a stubborn refusal to let my childhood write my ending.

Nobody gave those tools to Jamie either.

That’s the part I carry.

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So why didn’t I write the book sooner?

Because I was afraid of success.

Not the money or attention. What I really feared was becoming what I needed most — someone who could be damaged by their own gift. I’ve already been poured out once. I wasn’t ready to do it from a platform where anyone could watch.

So I waited until I was strong enough to carry it.

And then it hit me — not as an idea, but as a weight: Jamie died with the toolkit still in my hands. Keeping it locked away wasn’t honoring her. It was the same abandonment she lived.

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The book is called REFRAME.

Hidden mental models for navigating problems and problem people with smarter self-awareness. One of them — born in a bathroom stall — taught me that every spiral has a pattern, and the pattern is always breakable in under two minutes. Another — born from a get well card that said almost nothing — taught me why some pain sticks to you for months while other pain slides right off.

Every one was built from real life. A porcupine. A crop field. A wheelchair. Not from a textbook. From a woman who needed them to survive.

This newsletter — AHAs — is where I build it in the open.

Each week, I’ll share one framework. One story. One shift that changed how I see a specific kind of person or problem. Some of these will end up in the book. Some won’t. All of them are real.

Next week, I’ll tell you about the time I was talking to myself out loud in a bathroom stall — ripping myself apart after a conversation with one specific person — and how that spiral became the method I now use every single week.

It’s called SAM. And it takes less than two minutes.

See you then.

— Samantha

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